hey-dominique:

don’t just stand there like a fucking statue and ask them if they’re ok. Do they look ok to you? You get your ass to them as fast as you can, give them the tightest hug. Don’t even ask them what’s wrong, just let them know you’re there for them. Let them have a little space, but give them comfort and sympathy - don’t just stare at them like a fucking fish and not do shit. Some of you people are so unreliable and unhelpful. At least do something to help, jeez.